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Pain is Inevitable, Suffering is Optional​
RIM® is a revolutionary emotional processing system that leverages the physical sensations of the body and the power of the subconscious imagination to bypass logic and get right to the heart of the hidden sources of pain.
Michael J. Kline
Master Trainer. Retreat Leader. Firekeeper.
​mike@michaeljkline.com
​603-986-8541
I Believe in the ancient Buddhist quote that suffering is optional.  Most of my life, I thought pain and suffering was just normal. I wasn't even aware of it until 2014, when RIM (Regenerating Images in Memory) found me. After 50 years of thinking I wasn't worthy, good enough, or even lovable, RIM change my life.

I also believe that every person (mental illness exceptions aside) always has choice or free will around suffering, and no one can take that away, regardless of circumstances.

So, why do our clients get stuck, have anxiety, suffer from time poverty, get in their own way, are forever stressed, play the victim/blame game, and are always in pursuit of something more that never seems to be enough?

I hope that you will indulge me further to discover how to locate and regenerate the root cause of self-sabotaging thoughts, feelings and behavior, so your clients automatically take action to manifest their goals and success.
Where the Suffering Started
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It's no big surprise, it's our environment - parents, family, friends, religion, media, and society. ​Even though we have free will, the overwhelming influence is so strong, we believe what we've been shown, taught, or what kept us safe. 

The result is a limited and subjective perception of ourselves, others, and the world. Most of this programming is in parts of our brain that make up the limbic system. We also have emotional memory stored at the cellular level in the body.  For simplicity, let's call the limbic system and the body, "the FEELER". And let's call the part of the brain that thinks, and figures things out, "the THINKER".  
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Most of the time, we can help coachable clients examine these perceptions, make thoughtful consideration and change. Often this isn't enough. If cognitive exploration was enough, then the client wasn't really stuck. Stuckedness is not being able to see options or having too much fear to consider them. It might be a well-hidden subconscious block, or body-memory from traumatic experiences. Real stuckedness is accessible to the Feeler but not the Thinker. Stuck clients tend to be on auto-responder mode, driven by stuck emotions and automatic defenses that live in the limbic system.

According to researcher Dr. Candace Pert (Molecules of Emotion), our emotional experiences are stored in the body at neurotransmitter sites and can be re-keyed to create different emotions that we've been addicted to. So, it makes sense to include the Feeler in our work, which is surprisingly simple to do.

Cognitive techniques (asking questions to the Thinker), when we know it's the Feeler who has access doesn't make sense. That would be like asking your son questions about your daughter's behavior.
 
Research shows we need to engage in a whole-brain experience, where the Thinker partners with the Feeler. RIM (Regenerating Images in Memory) does just that. RIM takes clients beyond the thinking brain.

Remember, suffering is optional, and I will show you how it can be resolved for yourself and your clients, if you're willing to explore beyond your own Thinker brain.
Traditional Modalities
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Most modalities we've been taught, are mostly cognitive in nature. The traditional approach of asking powerful questions, helping clients shift their perspective or re-framing is important and extremely valuable. And, this is only part of the solution, as it doesn't reach the subconscious saboteurs. The Thinker thinks one thing, and the Feeler feels something different.

The Thinker works with language, logic, data, and how to figure things out. It identifies as self. The challenge is, the Feeler works in imagery, metaphor, feelings, and emotions that are felt in the body. The Thinker wants to jump in and try to figure out what's NOT figure-out-able.

​The genius of RIM is the ability to translate and synthesize the work of both, to create a whole-brain experience. This is a massive breakthrough in what's possible for self-healing and change. 
The River of Emotions
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We know that emotions drive decisions and behavior and that 95% of our brain activity is NOT in our Thinker awareness. We walk through life basically unconscious allowing our past experiences to drive our CURRENT decisions and behavior.​

RIM creator Dr Deb, calls it the River of Emotions. Emotions flow through our body like water flows through a river. If a negative emotion is resisted, it's like throwing a boulder into the river and most of us have many boulders, or even a complete dam. This keeps us flooded with the negative feelings we're trying resist. What we resist not only persists but expands. Life goes on, working around the boulders, causing unnecessary suffering. Stuck emotions can also lead to serious physical ailments, especially if they fester for years.

​If we could only allow them to flow, they would dissipate naturally. RIM uses the power of imagination to find and release the old stuck emotions. 

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Emotional Processing
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Emotional processing is now much easier than previously thought. It really doesn't matter what issues we're trying to resolve, the first challenge is knowing what is truly blocking a client from moving forward.

We can try to guess what the underlying root issues are or we can trust that the client's Feeler already knows the answer. And it does, we can trust it.   

The RIM process trusts the subconscious to automatically find negative stuck emotional memories causing conflict.  Neuroscience findings support the efficacy of RIM® by explaining that the brain and nervous system is changeable (neuroplasticity). Researchers have discovered that recalling a memory biochemically destabilizes it, creating a window of opportunity for change. It is important to BE in the memory (Feeler), not just talking (Thinker) about it. RIM makes this possible without reliving traumatic experiences. The old stuck hurt and pain can be regenerated in a positive affirming way. You can think of opening memories, like pressing on a phone's icon to open them. We can then make changes to the jiggly icons and then lock them back in place.

It's also like traveling back in time, finding the original negative memory, regenerating it into a new positive memory, and creating new neural pathways in the brain. The original factual memory is still intact but loses the negative charge it once had. This allows the client to not only think different but will FEEL different at a much deeper level than ever thought possible.
RIM is Different
When I do workshops or a demo session in front of coaches or therapists, they often ask me to compare RIM to other modalities. I've taught RIM to over 125 coaches and therapists, who have myriad other certifications. So, I asked my students to compare RIM to their other modalities.  The list so far includes EMDR, RRT, Brain-spotting, EFT/TFT Tapping, Hypnosis, NLP, CBT, Process Coaching, Somatic Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Emotion Code, Family Constellations, Conversational Intelligence, Interactive Guided Imagery, and dozens more.

I'll share five big differences that separate RIM even from a few modalities that seem to use similar skills.

1. How deeply the work is truly client-generated. Way beyond client-centered, RIM will stretch what you think is possible following the client deeper and moving you further away from being the expert (warning: it's a humbling experience if you think you're already a master at this). You will discover a new level of mastering the art of neutral witnessing and holding space.

2. No need to know the issue. We don't need to explore or dig. It's common for the client and the facilitator to be surprised at what shows up, and it's often something they would never have thought to work on. Meanwhile, it is the root of their biggest challenge.

3. Single session power. Each RIM session is a single, complete piece of work. We usually recommend at least 2-3 weeks between sessions and it's okay for more time in between. RIM is usually about removing the biggest blocks, making your other coaching and therapy tools work even better.

4. Speed and Trust. Clients frequently tell me they do more big work in their first RIM session than in weeks (or years) of traditional talk therapy or coaching. The relationship we're building is between the client and the client-self, not between the client and facilitator.

5. Autonomy. Sometimes a client does big work around an event without even revealing what the event was. We follow the emotion, not the story. 
About RIM Sessions
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A RIM session can be done over the phone, on Zoom or in person. It is usually a closed-eye process. RIM is safe to be done by coaches, schoolteachers, retreat leaders, therapists, and other helping professionals.

The client is in charge at all times, and they are actually more aware during a RIM session than they are in their normal daily activities. There is no psychological manipulation or direction from the facilitator, and we do not diagnose or prescribe. 

By using 15 evidence-based RIM skills, the process automatically finds the stuck emotional memories, experiences are created, felt, expressed and anchored in the client's body for quick and permanent positive change. The client generates their own experience and what shows up is perfect and more powerful than anything we could have thought to ask (Thinker). Clients are often surprised at what comes up and how gentle and pleasant the experience is.

We teach a complete system that creates emotional safety at all times. It is critical that RIM Facilitators learn the complete RIM system to keep themselves and their clients safe. Because RIM can be used by different professionals, our training addresses how to screen clients and be sure to stay in their own area of expertise and scope of practice.

The client frequently says they feel completely different. Sometimes, they will feel like they time-travelled and created new memories that they intellectually know are pretend but feel real. The science of what's happening confirms that the nervous system treats a well-imagined event similar to a real event. And because this is a whole-brain experience, change becomes much easier and often instant and permanent.  The science is finally catching up to what Dr Deb has been teaching for years. A 2018 study named "Your Brain on Imagination: It's a lot like reality, study shows" done by the University of Colorado supports exactly what Dr. Deb teaches.

The entire process releases stuck emotions, (removing those pesky boulders from the river of emotions). The client then gets to change the negative emotions (jiggly icons) by regenerating them into new positive memories. These new positive memories feel just as real as the original memory. With the negative emotions released, the client not only thinks differently and feels better, but actually feels different. Because they are different.
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Dr Deb Sandella, RIM Creator
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RIM was created by Dr. Deborah Sandella. Dr. Deb (as she is affectionately called) has a Doctorate in Human Communication and a Masters in Psychiatric Nursing. During the first 25 years of her career, she worked in a myriad of mental health settings from intensive services to private practice and innovated two cutting-edge inpatient community-based programs.

As an award-winning therapist, University Professor and a Best-selling author, she’s the whole package. Dr. Deb initially synthesized aspects of Interactive Guided Imagery, Somatic techniques and other skills she’d found effective; yet, as RIM has evolved “through” her rather than “from” her as she humbly describes, it has developed a life of its own as a revolutionary whole-brain way of naturally processing emotions. ​And neuroscience now confirms what she’s been teaching for decades.

Michael J. Kline was trained directly under Dr. Deb and continues to assist her with Certification and Master programs. Michael is the senior Licensed Trainer with the RIM Institute.
Your Trainer
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​Committed to personal growth and a call to be "The Fire” as a teacher and human, Mike became an owner in a retreat center in Costa Rica and co-founder of the Retreat Leaders Academy.

Michael is the 11th of 12 children born into poverty on his abusive, alcoholic father’s junkyard. After losing his mother at age 7 and being adopted by an emotionally abusive aunt and uncle, he spent the next forty years discovering that he is worthy of love and life. Now a six-time successful entrepreneur, Michael is on a mission to help others help others. 

Michael is the Senior Trainer at The RIM Institute, and also serves on Jack Canfield’s Train the Trainer faculty. He is a life-long learner, holding numerous certifications and always learning new interesting tools. His passion is creating safe and sacred spaces with love, connection, and always, a questionable amount of humor. Michael lives in Sarasota with his husband Sal of 34 years and their labradoodle, Sir Luke.
Michael J. Kline
Master Trainer. Retreat Leader. Firekeeper.
​mike@michaeljkline.com
​603-986-8541
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“Michael is an excellent trainer, brilliant at creating a deep sense of intimacy and connection among people. Authentic, transparent and dedicated to making a difference in the lives of others.”
~Jack Canfield, America’s #1 Success Coach, Creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul and The Success Principles.
High Praise for RIM
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​“RIM work produces such immediate and extraordinary emotional and physical results, it may at first appear unbelievable, but I have witnessed it in action in my own life and the lives of hundreds of my students and trainees and can testify to its profound impact.”  ~ Jack Canfield, NY Times bestselling author, Coauthor of Chicken Soup for the Soul® Series and The Success Principles, internationally renowned corporate trainer & speaker.
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"If you are a trainer, speaker, coach - any professional helping people grow, you need the RIM tool in your toolbox. No matter your pathway for helping people, you will be infinitely more effective and transformational if you learn to incorporate this technique." ~ Garrett Biss, CAPP, Speaker, Trainer, Coach, USMC(Ret.) New Bern, NC.
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​"I am astonished at the power of RIM to so quickly and directly shift stuck emotions and old stories. I feel an obligation to share this with my clients. It needs to be in the world!" ~ Marla Dufek, CPCC, Atlanta, GA
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​"As a Master Certified Coach since 2006, I was looking for a tool to expand my skills in service of my coaching clients. Not only are my clients experiencing extraordinary self-discoveries using the RIM technique, I have grown as a person in ways that continue to astound me!" ~ Chanda Carlson, MA, MCC, Master RIM Facilitator
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"I love RIM. It's the missing piece in my coaching tool kit." ~ Jane Barr, CEO, Kinnexion, Sarasota, FL ​